Hello besties! 👋
Are you tired of the same old "what do you want to do?" "I don't know, you?" cycle? Honestly, same. It’s giving stagnant energy and we are NOT about that here.
Whether you're chilling on the couch or bridging the gap in a long-distance relationship, sometimes you just need a fun, low-pressure way to vibe with your partner. That’s where This or That comes in. It’s cute, it’s quick, and it actually helps you learn those tiny little details about your babe that make your heart do a little flip. ✨
We’ve rounded up 30 of the sweetest (and slightly spicy) This or That questions to level up your connection. Let’s dive in!
1 Morning hug or night kiss?
Are you a "wake up and cuddle" kind of couple, or more about that "sweet dreams" smooch? Personally, we'll take both, but pick one!
2 Ice cream or chocolate?
The eternal debate. Is it a pint of Mint Chip in bed or a fancy box of truffles?
3 Long talks or silly jokes?
Deep soul-baring convos at 2 AM or laughing until your stomach hurts over literally nothing?
4 Movie night or game night?
Cozying up for a rom-com marathon or getting way too competitive over a board game?
5 Picnic date or café date?
Sunlight and grass stains or aesthetic lattes and people-watching?
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6 Beach day or park walk?
Salt in your hair and sand everywhere, or a quiet stroll through your favorite green space?
7 Cute texts or voice notes?
Seeing that heart emoji pop up or hearing the actual vibration of his voice? (Voice notes are basically audio hugs, just saying).
8 Rain walk or sun walk?
Feeling like the main character in a sad indie movie, or soaking up those golden hour rays?
9 Cozy hoodies or matching tees?
Stealing his oversized hoodie or being that *extra* couple with the coordinated outfits?
10 Sweet letters or flowers gift?
Handwritten feels that last forever or a fresh bouquet that smells like heaven?
11 Dance together or sing together?
A clumsy kitchen dance party or a carpool karaoke session where you both hit the wrong notes?
12 Pizza night or burger night?
Cheesy goodness or a messy, juicy burger? This says a lot about your soul, choose wisely.
13 Selfie fun or photo shoot?
Unfiltered messy selfies or a full-on "I need to post this on the 'gram" staged shoot?
14 Road trip or home chill?
Windows down and a curated playlist, or ordering takeout and staying in your pajamas all day?
15 Early call or late call?
A "good morning" coffee chat or a sleepy 1 AM "I miss you" whisper?
16 Silly faces or cute smiles?
Realizing you're both weirdos together or that "wow you're pretty" heart-stop moment?
17 Surprise gift or planned gift?
The "OMG you shouldn't have" shock or getting exactly what was on your Pinterest board?
18 Love song or love poem?
A playlist that reminds you of them or a note that makes you cry (the good kind)?
19 Comedy show or romance movie?
Laughing until you can't breathe or holding hands through the emotional climax?
20 Long hug or forehead kiss?
The kind of hug where you melt into each other or that super protective, sweet forehead smooch?
21 Camping tent or hotel stay?
Roughing it under the stars or room service and a king-sized bed? (No judgment, we love luxury too).
22 Big party or small dinner?
Being the life of the party or a quiet corner table for two?
23 Stargazing night or sunset view?
Looking for constellations in the dark or watching the sky turn pink and orange?
24 Lazy day or fun day?
Doing absolutely nothing together or an jam-packed itinerary of activities?
25 Sweet cuddle or sweet kiss?
Physical closeness and warmth or that electric spark of a kiss?
26 Snow play or sand play?
Building a snowman and drinking cocoa or beach volleyball and tanning?
27 Matching rings or bracelets?
The ultimate commitment symbol or a cute, subtle accessory you both wear?
28 Favorite song or favorite movie?
Sharing your earphones or sharing the popcorn?
29 Cute nickname or pet name?
Is it "Babe" or something weird and specific that only you two understand?
30 City lights or countryside stars?
The buzz and glow of the city skyline or the absolute silence and sparkle of the country?
And there you have it, besties! 30 ways to get closer to your person without it feeling like a job interview. Remember, there are no wrong answers (except maybe picking burgers over pizza... just kidding, mostly). 😉
If you loved these, you'll be obsessed with what we're building at Closerly. We’ve got hundreds more questions, daily rituals, and games designed specifically to keep that spark alive—whether you're 5 miles or 5,000 miles apart. Anyway, that's all for now. Ok Bye! Lovelies!👋
